BDSM/Fetish party

The Netherlands is known for its unique parties, parties, festivals such as the famous Loveland, Bootstock, Mysteryland, Lowlands, Tofler and many other great parties. In the field of BDSM FETISH there is also much to experience. On our site Mistresses-Benelux, we have a special list in English of the most famous and lesser known parties in the Netherlands and Belgium.




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A fetish party always has a minimum dress code of lacquer, leather or latex. Often this is supplemented by PVC. In addition, just about every fetish party has its own individual additions to the patent-leather-latex base.

Dress code

Some parties have a dress code. That dress code is usually lacquer, leather or latex. But often uniforms are allowed too (think of an army uniform or a french maid outfit), or a burlesque outfit, a nice suit or something like a corset with petticoat. At other parties, people are asked to come in black (what is it with BDSM people and black…) and at other parties there is no dresscode at all, so you can just go there in jeans. Or in your latex catsuit. Just what you want. But always pay attention to what the dress code is beforehand.


18 September 2021 – Fetish union

Dark Fetish Underground party, in the Westergasfabriek Amsterdam. A new name for the fetish party in Amsterdam.

WHOW-Events and the WesterUnie have joined forces to preserve this unique party for Amsterdam. With the knowledge and experience of Mr and Mrs Secret, known from Secret Underground, a unique deal has been made, so that in this entirely new era with all its new rules we can still throw a fetish party.

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2 october 2021 – BITCH (Zaandam)

B.I.T.C.H is a party that is held twice a year.
It has a special character. Most people talk about how there is only one party where the friendly family bond is so strong. Everyone has so much respect for each other. Thick, thin, young, old, straight and gay. B.I.T.C.H is known as an action-packed party where your wildest dreams come true. No one gets bored at B.I.T.C.H. The dress code is always well and strictly enforced. B.I.T.C.H is also known for attracting a lot of beautiful young people compared to other fetish parties. People who go to a fetish party for the first time usually choose B.I.T.C.H. The organisation is only happy with that. You often see new and nice people at the party. The people who got the B.I.T.C.H virus once will not get rid of it easily and will definitely come back.

There is no point in kicking the habit. Addicted is addicted.

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16 October 2021 – Fetish Dreamz – Groningen

the first parties were well received, with a good atmosphere, good music and nice, often new faces. Strict control on outfit, be fetish!

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16 October 2021 – Secret Underground (Den Haag)

Only real Fetish lovers in den Haag. Strict dresscode. The famous underground vaults with a maze of corridors with even the original cell-rooms….  CATACOMB is a playground for adults, fetishists, sensualists, kinksters and erotic clubbers. Dance, play and discover pleasure, in a sensual atmosphere. With accessible attractive visitors with fetish, erotic fantasies and completely open minded.  

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30 october 2021 – Toxic – Tilburg

Toxic the fetish party of Brabant. Shine in your latex, leather and rubber outfit and dance with like-minded people. A special no-nonsense party where the partygoers themselves can build a show.

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6 november 2021 – Kinky Paradise (Almere)

The 13th edition of Kinky Paradise in Almere has been moved to 6 November. Please check the website for the correct date.
As you are used to, you can use all the facilities this club has to offer:

  • Unlimited drinks (from water to spirits)
  • Hot and cold buffet
  • Toilet facilities
  • Towels
  • Darkroom
  • Wet group, with rain shower, make-up mirrors etc.
  • Secret rooms for even more privacy
  • Heated outdoor and indoor jacuzzi
  • Free parking
  • USA Disco Cave with pro DJ Booth incl. top deejays
  • Smoking area with fireplace and many lounge corners
  • Safety deposit boxes (€10 deposit, €10 return upon return of key)
  • Beautiful large covered garden with huge sun lounger
  • ice creams
  • Dance bar with dance pole
  • Reconstructed old quarters back wall
  • gloryhole room
  • Magical sound and enchanting full colour laser
  • clothing stand (please bring cash/pin card because of multiple stands)

In the trance/dance cave, the audience can once again go crazy on our music, led by our top deejays with GOHAN, DA DOMINATOR, MAURIZO, MISS HAYES and REM. The line-up for this evening is not to be missed.

In the beautiful large garden (partially covered), a lovely heated swimming pool has been built surrounded by huge lounge sofas and cosy seats. Here you can enjoy a snack / drink. 



Our parties are ONLY open to couples, ladies, gay couples, lesbians, bi’s, t-girls and transgenders.

There will also be 2×1 ALL-INCLUSIVE guest list places given away EXCLUSIVELY via party flock. All you have to do is put Kinky Paradise 28 August 2021 in your Party Flock agenda and you can win these UNIQUE free tickets.



We hereby invite you all to come and party, because what’s a party without guests. Put on your naughty shoes, dress up in your most creative, naughty, exciting and sexy kinky/fetish outfit and surrender to a party that is unprecedented. Let yourself be enchanted by the magic of KINKY PARADISE.

Reservations €50 P.P ALL-INCLUSIVE
Door sales €50 P.P
Time: 20:00 till 04:00
Cash and pin payment possible
Age: 18 +
!!! Strict door policy !!!
Music Genre: trance, techtrance, house, tribalhouse, club and electro
Strict dresscode: lack, leather, rubber, metal, latex and burlesque (no jeans, trainers, fabric underwear or flip flops )

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9 November – Dark Fetish party (Amsterdam – Westerunie)

27 november – Wasteland rituals (Hemkade -Zaandam)


june 2022 – Wasteland Summerfest (thuishaven Amsterdam)

Dive into the festival’s Post-Apocalyptic theme and dance like there is no tomorrow! Summerfest is created for those who dare to be who they want to be… celebrating freedom!A Saturday full of extraordinary live entertainment, art spaces & vehicles and spectacular shows by international performers. Circus performances, fire shows, dancers, contortionists and much more, featuring renowned DJs playing multiple genres of music on different stages

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october 2022 Europerve (secret location)

Rubberlovers, party people and beautifull locations. Europerve. Next one, soon more information.

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